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Friday, September 07, 2007

New training center coming

REPORT: Dallas, TX Sept. 7, 2007

Maximize My Center is bring constructed for release to the public in January 2008.
This new center is now taking charter member activations. As a charter member you will be able to secure your online training with a guarantee of unlimited training access to any training course we publish for the first year of operation starting January 1, 2008.

Current course nearing completion: Basics Considerations for the After Abortion Support Group Leadership
This distance learning course will be the first pilot study to be completed on or before October 1, 2007.
An additional set of courses are planned to follow during November and December.

Negotiations with national organizations that need the support of distance learning training are underway with a number of core interest titles being considered.

This release is an invitation to any writer, publisher of training materials that are used by the Prolife Pregnancy Center community; Contact our office in Garland TX for more information or visit
www.maximizemycenter.comd to get more information about signing up.

Ken Freeman
office@cpcworld.org

Friday, November 17, 2006

Listen to the Audio Blog

Tuesday, November 07, 2006

New Gabcast Podcast Ready

After Abortion Help is now more than just a web blog. It is now a podcast blog.
Link to the podcasts at
www.gabcast.com

Enjoy!

Ken Freeman

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same name as this blog.
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Enjoy!


Sincerely,
Ken Freeman

Sunday, November 05, 2006

Mount Rushmore Rally: The Rocks Cry Out

Mount Rushmore Rally: The Rocks Cry Out
Pro-family supporters rally at national monument for life, marriage

By Bob Ellis Dakota Voice Nov.5, 2006

MOUNT RUSHMORE--Over an hour in advance, people were already streaming
into the amphitheatre at Mount Rushmore this morning for the Rushmore
Rally, featuring speakers such as Rick Scarborough, Janet Folger, Alan
Keyes, and Dr. James Dobson of Focus on the Family.
Running against the norm for November in South Dakota, the temperature
was moderate and the skies were sunny and blue, causing many to remark
that God's favor seemed to be upon the weather.

The event in support of Referred Law 6 (the abortion ban), Amendment C
(the marriage protection amendment), and Initiated Measure 7 (video
lottery repeal) got underway shortly before 10:00 am with some
powerful praise and worship music led by seven enthusiastic musicians.

When Robert Regier, executive director of the South Dakota Family
Policy Council opened the rally, he asked, "Should men be able to
marry men?" and the crowd of about 1,500 cried "No!" He asked if we
should be able to kill our babies, and again the crowd cried, "No!"
Regier asked if we should fund government on the backs of gambling
addicts and the crowd once more cried, "No!" Regier then said, "If you
said 'no' to all these, then vote 'yes' to all these measures!"

Regier spoke about when, as a younger man, he had paid to have his
unborn child aborted, but said that the place where he had killed his
child eventually became a crisis pregnancy center started by Leslee
and Allen Unruh. Regier gave her credit as the person who had led the
effort that helped pass HB 1215, the abortion ban, in the state
legislature earlier this year.

When Unruh took the podium, she deferred, stating she was just being
obedient to God. She said that even today, as the rally was going on,
there were many volunteers all over the state who were going out,
telling people about Referred Law 6 and working to get out the vote.

"Get on your knees," Unruh encouraged the crowd. "Then get on your
feet and get to work." She said people should, even going through the
drive-through at Burger King, be asking people if they were going to
vote "Yes" on Referred Law 6. Unruh said it shouldn't be taken for
granted that people understood the measure.

Unruh told of an 82-year-old woman who had come to her office
recently, stating that she had voted early by absentee ballot, but
that she had not been as informed as she should have been. The lady
told her that though she opposed abortion, she had mistakenly voted
"No" to Referred Law 6, thinking that she was saying "No" to abortion.

Unruh saluted the many post-abortive women, counting herself among
their number, who have taken a stand this year for life. She said many
post-abortive women from around the country have made donations to the
VoteYesForLife.com campaign in the same amounts as they paid for their
abortions.

She said that on Nov. 8, the Fleet for Little Feet women's clinic bus
was going to be traveling the state of South Dakota, doing free
ultrasounds for pregnant women.

President of Vision America Rick Scarborough told the rally attendees
that the rally was not their work, but that leaving the rally to make
phone calls and go door-to-door was what they should do.

Scarborough told the story of Sodom and Gomorrah and how Abraham had
pleaded with God for a reprieve from judgment. He said that he
believes God is withholding judgment on America, waiting to see what
South Dakotans will do on November 7. He said that in three days,
South Dakota will have a chance to overturn Roe v. Wade and asked,
"What will you do, South Dakota?"

As he introduced, Janet Folger, founder and president of Faith2Action,
Regier asked, "Could these men on Mt. Rushmore have imagined the day
when it would be legal for men to marry men? Could they have imagined
a world where it would be legal to kill your own child in the womb?"
He introduced Folger as the woman who had helped pass one of the first
partial birth abortion bans in the nation in Ohio.

When Folger reached the podium, she proclaimed, "This is South Dakota,
and the killing stops here!"

Folger lifted her hands to indicate the memorial behind her on the
mountain and said, "There are some things so engrained in our history
that even the rocks cry out!"

She quoted George Washington as saying, "The fate of unborn millions
will now depend, under God, on the courage and conduct of this army."

She then quoted Thomas Jefferson: "The care of human life and not its
destruction is the first and only legitimate object of good
government." Folger said, "Get government out of this issue, some say?
This is why we have government!"

Continuing, Folger quoted Theodore Roosevelt: "I cannot stand idly
while directly or indirectly an apology is made for the murder of the
helpless."

And finally, she quoted Abraham Lincoln: "No one has the right to
choose to do what is morally wrong."

"America, the rocks are crying out!" Folger declared.

Folger also said that just as the flags of the 50 states line the path
to the terrace overlooking Mt. Rushmore, so the other states are
waiting to see what will be done in South Dakota on November 7.

Sylvia Rhoden of Union Center, South Dakota then spoke and said that
two years ago, when the abortion ban almost passed at that time, she
realized that she had to tell of when she and her husband John had, as
she put it, "surgically murdered" their child in her womb.

Rhoden said that right after she had done this, she realized too late
that she had "entered a realm where no woman should tread." When she
found healing, she said, "It flooded my soul to know that God loved me
so."

Author and speaker Bill Federer recounted how the Republican Party was
founded in the 1800s to oppose slavery and polygamy, standing for the
rights of all people and proclaiming that marriage was between one man
and one woman. Federer said that even then, some had argued that while
they disapproved of slavery, they also argued that the "choice" to own
slaves should remain legal.

When former ambassador Alan Keyes spoke, he said that people are not
declared persons by any facet of government, but by our Creator to
have certain "inalienable rights." Keyes also said the claim of a
"separation of church and state" was not "a law, but is a lie."

Keys said that marriage is the context within which procreation
occurs, and a situation in which procreation cannot occur has no
meaning as marriage.

Speaking of the Roe v. Wade decision, Keyes said the Supreme Court had
made abortion legal, but that the Supreme Court is supposed to derive
its authority for their rulings from laws that have been passed, or
from the Constitution. He said that Judge Harry Blackmun had
acknowledged that if the personhood of the unborn could be
established, there could be no right to abortion.

Reviling the fact that government had been taken out of the hands of
the people by the Supreme Court, Keyes said, "We are not peasants! We
are not slaves! We are not serfs! We are people with the right to
govern ourselves!"

"The Constitution does not belong to the judges," he continued. "The
Constitution does not belong to the lawyers. It belongs to the people
of the United States!"

Keyes pointed out that the preamble of the U.S. Constitution says that
the constitution was established to "secure the blessings of liberty
to ourselves and our posterity." He said "posterity" is defined as
those who come after us, or our children. "For God and our posterity,"
he said we were fighting, his voice breaking.

Keyes had the crowd on their feet in thunderous applause many times,
then took a parting but direct shot at the liberal media, stating, "If
the media were not the tools of Satan, they would be spreading this
truth!"

Dr. James Dobson of Focus on the Family then took the stage. He said
that these were interesting and distressing times. He said he had
never seen "such hatred as I've seen expressed recently." Dobson
mentioned some of the things he's said being taken out of context by
the media, and also of the death threats made against some pro-life
leaders in South Dakota.

Dobson said this hatred had its roots in the year 2000 when the Left
lost the White House, and again in 2004 when their hopes were thwarted
by "values voters." He said liberals had been surprised by these
"values voters" and had since sought to identify them so they could
convince them not to vote.

Speaking of recent scandals including that of Congressman Mark Foley,
Dobson said the headlines were being designed to convince values
voters not to vote. Of the Foley scandal, Dobson asked, "What's that
got to do with the issues we're faced with today?"

Dobson then asked the crowd if they were going to vote on Tuesday, and
was answered with a loud, "Yes!" This was immediately followed by the
loud bark of a Park Service police dog, possibly signaling his desire
to vote, too, Dobson mused.

Serious once again, Dobson said too much was at stake for "values
voters" to stay home. He mentioned the possibility that one or two
Supreme Court justices could retire in the near future, and that if
the U.S. Senate is held by a liberal majority, President George W.
Bush will be unable to fill those vacancies with good judges.

Dobson also recounted the threats faced by our nation such as nuclear
proliferation, the belligerence of North Korea and Iran, and threats
from some Muslims who want to kill non-Muslims, and asked if the reins
of government could be entrusted to those in Congress who do not
understand these threats.

Dobson then spoke of South Dakota's newest senator. "Senator John
Thune is my friend, but John Thune should have been here today."
Dobson said he had already talked to Thune and told him he would be
saying this today, expressing dismay that Thune had not taken a
stronger stance in support of important state measures such as
Referred Law 6.

On the subject of Roe v. Wade, Dobson said the case had been based on
a lie, and continued in a lie to this day. He said that Norma
McCorvey, the woman behind the case, has since become a Christian and
admitted that she lied about having been pregnant from a gang rape.

A recent Pew poll shows that 73% of people say abortion is wrong,
Dobson said. He also said 67% say abortion should be curtailed or
banned. Dobson said the pro-life movement is winning, but, "We must
not lose momentum, and much of that momentum will depend on what you
do on November 7 in South Dakota."

Dobson said that we must be compassionate to the rape victim, and that
rapists should go to jail for the rest of their lives. Yet, he said,
"You don't punish the baby for the sins of the father."

In support of marriage, Dobson quoted Genesis regarding the foundation
of marriage since the beginning of the human race, and said cultures
and religions across the entire earth throughout history have
recognized this. He said that studies have proven that children do
best in homes with a committed father and mother, and this stable home
environment helps curb delinquency, school dropouts, and fosters
better academic performance.

Dobson warned of a new idea that would be coming our way soon called
"gender fluidity." He said a new push for this concept was coming out
of California, and would likely try to find its way into every other
state. He said that the idea behind "gender fluidity" is that sex
isn't genetically determined, but is chosen. He said that adherents to
this philosophy don't want 5-year-olds to be told that they are boys
or girls, but instead be told that they can work out their gender for
themselves. Dobson said this involves unisex bathrooms and not
determining whether children dress appropriate to their sex.

Pointing out that his wife Shirley is the head of the National Day of
Prayer, Dobson said that Sunday November 5 had been designated as a
National Day of Prayer and Fasting for the nation. He asked that even
if people could not fast tomorrow, for whatever reason, they should
please pray for the election.

And on Tuesday, "Go to the polls and take five people with you. Five
to the polls to accomplish our goals," Dobson rhymed.

As Dobson asked the people if they would vote for Referred Law 6 and
Amendment C, their shouts of "Yes, yes!" could be heard echoing off
the granite sculptures of Mt. Rushmore, making it seem that the rocks
were indeed crying out.

"Let's give everybody a shock on Tuesday night," Dobson encouraged, as
the rally drew to a close.

Bipolar Disorder Costs US Businesses 2x in Lost productivity

Bipolar disorder costs U.S. businesses twice as much in lost productivity than m
Posted by pastorken on: 2006-09-05 13:26:00

FRIDAY, Sept. 1 (HealthDay News) -- Bipolar disorder costs U.S. businesses twice as much in lost productivity than major depression, a new study finds.


Each U.S. worker with bipolar disorder averaged 65.5 lost workdays a year, compared to 27.2 annual lost work days for those with major depression, concludes a study in the September issue of the American Journal of Psychiatry.

Overall, major depression is six times more common than bipolar disorder, but bipolar disorder costs U.S. businesses nearly half as much as major depression, at more than $14 billion a year, the study said.

The findings are based on a year of data collected from nearly 3,400 workers who took part in a national survey. Workers were asked how many days in the previous year they had experienced a mood-disorder episode. Lost productivity was calculated by combining work days lost due to absence or poor functioning on the job and salary data.

About one percent of U.S. workers experience bipolar disorder in a year, compared to 6.4 percent who battle major depression. However, the researchers estimated that bipolar disorder accounts for 96.2 million lost workdays a year and $14.1 billion in lost salary/lost production, compared to 225 million lost workdays and $36.6 billon in lost salary/lost production for major depression.

The study was funded by the U.S. National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH).

Another NIMH-funded study in the same issue of the American Journal of Psychiatry found that depression can impair many aspects of job performance, and these effects linger even after depression symptoms have improved.

Researchers assessed the job performance and productivity of 286 workers with depression and dysthymia, 93 with rheumatoid arthritis, and 193 healthy workers for 18 months.

Dysthymia is a form of depression marked by consistently low moods that aren't as extreme as in other kinds of depression.

Job performance among the depressed workers did improve as their symptoms eased, but even "clinically improved" depressed workers did worse than healthy workers on mental, interpersonal, time management, output and physical tasks, the study found.

Compared to healthy workers, those with rheumatoid arthritis did worse only on physical tasks.

Health professionals need to pay more attention to recovery of work function in people with depression, the study authors said. They also suggested that workplace support programs are needed to help depressed workers better manage their job demands.

More information

The American Academy of Family Physicians has more about bipolar disorder.

Friday, November 03, 2006




Posted on Fri, Nov. 03, 2006

I ran across this post on the Aberdeen site. PROABORTS: LISTEN TO THIS ARTICLE!

Abortion hurts women, babies

To the editor - Certainly the most important aspect of Referred Law 6 is the spiritual and Christian welfare of our great nation and the world. God made us all to love one another. That means all of us, including unborn babies.

In the 33 years since the Roe v. Wade ruling, science has made incredible strides. The report of the South Dakota Task Force to Study Abortion, one of the most comprehensive studies on abortion in the country, cites general scientific acceptance that a fetus has nerves and can feel pain by 23 to 24 weeks post-conception. Some scientists even believe the fetus can feel pain by five and a half weeks post-conception. That is about the same time many women realize they may be pregnant.

It also stated that a 99 percent of the interviewed women who have had abortions said that abortion is destructive of the rights, interests and health of women and that abortion should not be legal.

The task force study also indicates that science now knows, from day one, the new human embryo is identifiable as a real individual human being. It quotes Dr. David Fu-Chi Mark as saying that each human being is totally unique from the very beginning of his or her life at fertilization.

The church has said this all along but our quest for a quick fix has us denying it. Do you still think your choice is valid? Do you really want to hurt yourself or your baby for a "choice?"

Pat Hale

Recent posts about the South Dakota Abortion Ban has been reported that pro abortion calls are saying that their phone calling shows them winning the war against life.

Survey Shows Opponents of South Dakota Abortion Ban Leading Proponents; Law's Advocates Focus on 'Psychological Effects' of Abortion
[Nov 03, 2006]
About 50% of likely voters in South Dakota oppose a state law (HB 1215) banning abortions except to save a woman's life, while 41% of likely voters support the ban and 9% are undecided, according to a poll conducted earlier this week for KELO-TV, the AP/Kansas City Star reports (AP/Kansas City Star, 11/2). The South Dakota Campaign for Healthy Families successfully blocked the July 1 enactment of the law by gathering enough signatures to put the issue on the November ballot (Kaiser Daily Women's Health Policy Report, 11/1). The telephone survey of 600 likely voters, conducted by Research 2000, also found that 36% said they believed the ban allowed for legal abortions in cases of rape or incest, 54% said it did not allow such exceptions and 10% did not know. The poll had a margin of error of four percentage points (AP/KELO-TV, 11/2). Another recent poll, conducted by Mason-Dixon Polling and Research and published on Sunday in the Sioux Falls Argus Leader found that 52% of state voters would vote against the ban, 42% would vote to sustain the law and 6% were undecided. The poll had a margin of error of four percentage points (Kaiser Daily Women's Health Policy Report, 11/1).

Ban Advocates' Strategy
The AP/Yahoo! News on Thursday examined the campaigns of the "rival sides in South Dakota's historic vote on abortion" and how a new campaign strategy for VoteYesforLife.com, which supports the ban, has significantly changed the debate. According to the AP/Yahoo! News, VoteYesforLife.com's campaign, titled "Support Women's Health," has focused on "depicting abortion as psychologically harmful to women," rather than emphasizing a fetus's "right to live or vilifying abortion providers." VoteYesForLife.com features women in its ads who "detai[l] their post-abortion despair," the AP/Yahoo! News reports. Although there is "no comprehensive, broadly accepted U.S. study quantifying abortion's psychological impact," and recent surveys have more opposition than support for the ban among likely voters, the Campaign for Healthy Families has found VoteYesForLife.com's strategy "challenging to counter," according to the AP/Yahoo! News. "The marketing is ingenious on their part," Maria Bell, a Sioux Falls, S.D.-based ob-gyn who opposes the ban in part because she feels it harms women's health, said, adding, "'Abortion hurts women' -- that's a great slogan, but they don't have the data to back that up. They have a lot of stories, but we don't make public policies on anecdotal evidence" (Crary, AP/Yahoo! News, 11/2).

As you read the pro abortion's point, they say we don't have the data to back up the statement: ABORTION HURTS WOMEN.

As an after abortion help provider, I can say that the 25,000 that have completed my recovery course and the over 500,000 that have visited my various websites and posted their thoughts through email during the course of the past 10 years online, I can tell you that abortion does hurt. It hurts men and women.

I know first hand. I am a man who caused an abortion and know the personally deep pain of guilt and shame that has driven my life for so many years. I was the brother to a woman (my sister) who had an abortion when she was 21 and suffered major hurts that drove her to her grave at 62 suffering nearly 40 years with bipolar, scizoid mental problems that led to her multiple attempts to commit suicide. I can tell you abortion does hurt, no matter what Maria Bell says.

I care less what the American Psychiactic Association says about abortion. I only know what I have felt and seen and know personally. I have worked in this ministry position for twenty-two years and can tell you that having talked to thousands by telelphone, responded to thousands by email that I have not yet met one that told me abortion didn't hurt.

And I call publically for Maria Bell to stop lying about abortion's aftermath. Remember, Maria, the abortion community is using their own brand of anecdotal evidence aka MS Magazine's survey and www.imnotsorry.net

I call this day for women and men of this world to post right here your own personal experience with abortion. Its time this world hears from you and me and not these anti-life paid professional who make their living killing babies and maiming women.

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Lets tell the truth about abortion's impact on our lives.

Welcome to AFTER ABORTION HELP

Here is where you, as one of the milliions of women who have experienced abortion can share your thoughts publically.
As one that has "been there done that" I will be posting my thoughts and ideas right here once a day. I look forward to see what you have posted. Of course, I, as the owner of this blog, have and retain the right to edit any posts that seem toooooooo offensive or hurtful to my new friends.

The rules are simple: tell the truth about your experience.

Where are you in your journey through life?

How has abortion impacted your personal life?

Share your stories right here.

Pastor Ken